Thursday, July 21, 2011

WHAT IS YOUR DEFINITION OF SEXY?


A Man's point of view....
by: Rain

I've asked some of my friends and acquaintances to define what is sexy to them as I always wanted to write a series of interviews on a man's point of view...we always think that men always look at the physical attribute of a woman to be sexy but I am genuinely surprised at the answers I am getting...I have to give them credit for this and a big round of applause. --Read and Learn..


 
Shadowrock

"It does not have anything to do with what they look like on the outside for me but their inner beauty, personality, the respect they have for others, and the way they carries themselves"

Tony AFX

"Sexy, to me, is a beautiful woman that has confidence in herself and knows what she wants out of life."


Ronn J.

"Sexy to me means Smart, Funny, Confident and Outgoing."


 " J "

"Look in the mirror........ Proof positive!! " 


David L

"Ah woman who looks good keep herself up"


Kevin B

"You"


 Miguel C

"Having compassion for others, understanding, having the love for all life, not being selfish or putting your self before God people, not being judgmental, be truthful.. that's what sexy is."


Roger B.

"Sexy is the shape of a person's body, eyes, lips, legs, etc etc etc.........."


TROY C

"KNOWING THAT THE ONE U ARE DOING IT WITH IS THE ONE IN UR HEART."


Darren B

"A woman that turns me on without doing anything."


 MR JAY W....(The Best Kept Secret)

"Sexy has many definitions but my definition is a woman who is soft, not only at the touch but in appearance and demeanor, she carries herself in a way that she doesn't have to talk loud to attract attention, she's elegant in every way."


 Thaum

"YOU are my definition of sexy. Seriously, you are. I am not just saying that."


James W

"Beautiful & charming"


 Suge

"Sexy is a woman who loves being a woman and looking, smelling, and acting as a woman. Must have outmost hygiene. Dress according to the situation a woman who can hold a intellectual conversation on anything happening in the world that's also sexy to me!"


Mark M

"That picture of you in that dress, thickness and your open toed shoes."


Daniel G

"You"


TERRY G(GOD'S PROPERTY):

"Sexy is the way you carry yourself, not the way you look. You can be adorably beautiful on the outside but on the inside, ugly. If you have Christ in your heart, then you have love in your heart. Having love in your heart is more beautiful than looks anytime!"


Robert J

"My definition of sexy is a woman that looks good and knows it, but that is also not stuck on yourself."



 DJ>LOVER

"Sexy is when two people so in love that even when they meet everyday, it's like the first day they met"


ShamusF

"A look, an attitude, how a person carries themselves."


Tyrone K

"Wow Pamela, no one has ever asked me that question...I guess you caught me off guard but of course I will respond. Sexy to me is Funny, intelligent, classy, warm, happy, and positive."



Alex A

"This is a general word, the way you walk could be sexy,your smile,your body could be sexy,but everything you see and make you say wow it is sexy."




 "Her personality."


Love for life

"You, hell look at you sexy"



Jonny H

"Confidence"

 Kilroy, JMP

"At my age, i guess it comes down to a Pizza and a soda....."


Nick B

"You"




La'Vante R

"The way one feel about themselves"
Jason
" That's a wide open, but good question. if what i see, smell, hear, or feel changes my chemistry from whatever it presently is, to amused, aroused, attentive, and hungry? It's sexy. But that starts with composure, cleanliness, inner beauty, then outer. . ."
 DFresh 
"You"
Michael L
 "you"
  
Darrell F
 "Sexy is a completeness how someone carry themselves, attitude, with a mix of sweetness. its not a look or size or a color...."
 ready2bwithu4all
  "YOU"
To: Donald M Jones
  "you!!"
Robert M
"Self Confidence, Self Love and a woman with a mean shoe and clothing game"
Jamie R
"A beautiful personality"
Fernandy D
"Intelligence, the craft of a beautiful mind"
BaLLa2011
  "Style, personality"
 farcas f
 "My definition of sexy? sexy is a woman, a dress, sexy eyes"
Dave W
"Me...."
Carlos G
  "someone who first of all has self-confidence and always feels good about herself."
 
Mike P
"You....."
Dwayne M
"When I look at u I know what it is mmmmmmmmm"
Tha Bossman
"A confident woman who knows her capabilities and knows what she wants and knows how to get it......"
 Astar
"Certain actions, expressions, and sayings of a woman can be very attractive and sexy as hell."
David Benavidez
"My definition of sexy is, what my heart feels that is beautiful to me!!!"

Tywain L
"How a woman carries herself that's sexy too me!"
 King Ken
"a woman's style and attitude......"
Ant Whizzo
"mental intelligence"
Edward W
"To me its about whats in your heart and not what you look like a lady with a good heart is sexy as hell to me she can be big or small and sexy as hell boo because of her heart and that's what I thin"
Robert c
"A woman's looks and how she acts"
 Eric
"The 100% exact kind of woman that you are Rain always & forever. You have the greatest inner beauty Rain, ok?"
Robe zAMORa
"You wearing Red underwear and Smiling at Robe"
Bobhamid N
"Soft, Calm, Cool, Magnetic, Understandable, Flexible, Loving, Caring, Playful, Enjoyable, having a Good Sense of Humor and trustworthy. In my eyes these are the definitions of Sexy !!!!"
 Louie D
"You!"
Rodd J
"u!"
Sketch
"Attractive females!"
KoolRod
"Sexy is in the eyes of the beholder. In your attitude, your confidence, your SWAG. Some would say, having that hour glass figure is sexy. But if she's ugly on the inside no T&A will make up for it. So there's looking sexy and then there's being sexy."
 Farman S
"smart and intelligent"
Alonzo P
"In other words you mami. A woman's brain not her looks or her body."
 Java
"sex with passion"
Louis D
"Eyes to the soul"
To: Kevin P
What is your definition of sexy? by ☂♥Rain♥☂ 4 days ago a woman who can get my heart racing just by walking into the room
David F
"Sexy to me is when two people laugh hysterically at the same time for the same reason then look at each other...wait 1 second and laugh full force again! or when watching a great movie together in the dark , under a cozy blanket holding each other"
jojo
"Like you!!"
Thomas H
"you"
Hennessy
"Self, If one do not know oneself then it don't matter what anyone may say or think... Everyone did not Like the same, or Love the same, so Sexy is in the eyes of the beholder, for them maybe Sexy to one as a smile, the way one holds your hand or just a certain look"
Stewart
'I think sexy is defined by the way one carries themselves."
Robert S
"To me sex is a state of mind! sex starts from the time you wake up in the morning with your partner until the time you and your partner laid back down for the nite the day in the midle should be all day fore play"
PAM: ROBERT, I ASKED SEXY NOT SEX....UGH!
ROBERT: "OHH"

Darnell M
"Inner beauty glow from within that complements the outer well manicured body and personality...ooh,la,la,la!"
Steve R
"YOU"
Willie B
"Sexual Attraction , also its something that makes my nature rise?"
Jonny H
"Confidence."
CONCLUSION:

I grew up in a society where the measure of a sexy woman is by having a fair complexion and an hourglass shape body. Thus as a young woman, I worked so hard to maintain a body to meet everybody's expectation. When I  was younger everybody was telling me that I was beautiful and I was sexy but deep inside me I had this stupid insecurity that I am just an ugly duckling hiding behind a mask.  As I became matured and after a couple of failed relationships, I learned to really look deep inside me and find out I was not living my own life but fulfilling somebody else's dream..I stopped obsessing about trying to be physically perfect..I ate what I want, I dress whatever makes me feel comfortable..I laugh, I dance, I write, I love without giving a damn on what the society dictates and I became who I am today...perfectly imperfect!


The answers I was getting from you my dear gentlemen moved me beyond my expectation, I was so jaded and so caught up with the two bad choices in my past that I sort of categorized ALL men as shallow individuals who only look at the physical side of  the fairer sex, dream, desire and crave "perfect" women who only lives in the fashion & sexy magazines and in the movies while bring home to momma the girl who will bear their children, cook barefoot in the kitchen and be submissive to the KING of the house, while the husband continues to crave, desire and dream about 'em perfect bit.....errrr ladies.


So I will take this opportunity to thank ya'll who answered truthfully and for being real...


In closing am I consolidating what is SEXY through a man's eyes:


" A sexy woman is somebody who is confident about herself. Soft in manners and attitude, strong in faith and love. Sexiness is not only about physical but it's also about intelligence. Somebody who accepts that she is a woman and that she have some limitations. Sexy is somebody who takes care of herself, who smells good, feels good and a happy person who loves life and be herself, A woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it, a woman who is sexy from the inside out..who can make your heart beat faster just being with you in the same room knowing you breathe the same air..sexy, is a special touch, a certain look and that smile, knowing she got you hooked"


created by: Rain

1 comment:

harrymonpsyche said...

Interesting blog you have here, Rain. :) Keep it up!